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POSITION OF WOMEN
Man was engaged from the beginning of the civilisation in
procuring food and shelter for his family. Women had to
shoulder the responsibility of rearing children and
maintenance of the house hold. In Sanskrit housewife is called
grahini. It is said that the prosperity and reputation of the
family entirely depend upon the grahini. 1 The position of
women enjoyed in any society is the index of the civilisation
and culture of the society. If woman enjoyed good position and
had status in the society, it ushered in the development of
the family at the lowest level, and finally the development
of the society and the civilisation itself.
From the Vedic period onwards the birth of female child
was not the occasion of rejoicing. But girls were also taught
Vedas during the Vedic period. The thread ceremony was also
performed to female children. There were women scholars like
Gargi Lopamudra, Visvara, Sikata Nivari and Ghosha. 2 On the
auspicious occasions both husband and wife had to perform in
rites (punyE-Vachan)and even now this tradition is current.
However, by the early centuries of Christian era a
a general decline of the woman has set in.
Position of royal woman:
The earliest reference to the women from royal families
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POSITION OF WOMEN
Man was engaged from the beginning of the civilisation in
procuring food and shelter for his family. Women had to
shoulder the responsibility of rearing children and
maintenance of the house hold. In Sanskrit housewife is called
grahini. It is said that the prosperity and reputation of the
family entirely depend upon the grahini. 1 The position of
women enjoyed in any society is the index of the civilisation
and culture of the society. If woman enjoyed good position and
had status in the society, it ushered in the development of
the family at the lowest level, and finally the development
of the society and the civilisation itself.
From the Vedic period onwards the birth of female child
was not the occasion of rejoicing. But girls were also taught
Vedas during the Vedic period. The thread ceremony was also
performed to female children. There were women scholars like
Gargi Lopamudra, Visvara, Sikata Nivari and Ghosha. 2 On the
auspicious occasions both husband and wife had to perform in
rites (punyE-Vachan)and even now this tradition is current.
However, by the early centuries of Christian era a
a general decline of the woman has set in.
Position of royal woman:
The earliest reference to the women from royal families
of Goa is from Prithvimallavarman's copper plate which
mentions that Chetasadevi, the daughter of Nellika on
triyodasi (13th day) of Shukla paksha of Jyestha donated
field. 3 From this is evident that the queen could exercise
influence over the king in making grants to Brahmins. The
mention to the women of early Chalukya ruler Vijayabhattarika
who ruled in Iridige Vishaya is found in the copper plate. 4
These copper plates also bear testimony to the status and
position enjoyed by the women from the royal families. For
exercising influence over the king in issuing grants or
shouldering administrative responsibility some training and
education were essential. The women from the royal families
and the elite were taught writing and reading. The women from
the ruling dynasties of the region took keen interest in
patronising ,,learning and art. The chief queen Kamaladevi of
Peramadi, Kadamba ruler of Goa was a great patron of
learning. Kamladevi with the assistance of Peramadi founded a
number of agraharas. In these agrahargs, Veda, VedEngas,
Nyaya, Mimansa, Siinkhya, Yoga, Vedanta, Smriti, ItihTt .'s and
purana's were taught. The queen Kamladevi built Narayan temple
and Mahglaxmi temple. 5
As regards the marriage among the royal families as well
as other sections of the Hindu society, It was considered as
one of the important 'sacraments (samskara) The objectives of
Hindu marriage were duty (dharma), progeny (prals) and
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POSITION OF WOMEN
Man was engaged from the beginning of the civilisation in
procuring food and shelter for his family. Women had to
shoulder the responsibility of rearing children and
maintenance of the house hold. In Sanskrit housewife is called
grahini. It is said that the prosperity and reputation of the
family entirely depend upon the grahini. 1 The position of
women enjoyed in any society is the index of the civilisation
and culture of the society. If woman enjoyed good position and
had status in the society, it ushered in the development of
the family at the lowest level, and finally the development
of the society and the civilisation itself.
From the Vedic period onwards the birth of female child
was not the occasion of rejoicing. But girls were also taught
Vedas during the Vedic period. The thread ceremony was also
performed to female children. There were women scholars like
Gargi Lopamudra, Visvara, Sikata Nivari and Ghosha. 2 On the
auspicious occasions both husband and wife had to perform in
rites (punyE-Vachan)and even now this tradition is current.
However, by the early centuries of Christian era a
a general decline of the woman has set in.
Position of royal woman:
The earliest reference to the women from royal families
of Goa is from Prithvimallavarman's copper plate which
mentions that Chetasadevi, the daughter of Nellika on
triyodasi (13th day) of Shukla paksha of Jyestha donated
field. 3 From this is evident that the queen could exercise
influence over the king in making grants to Brahmins. The
mention to the women of early Chalukya ruler Vijayabhattarika
who ruled in Iridige Vishaya is found in the copper plate. 4
These copper plates also bear testimony to the status and
position enjoyed by the women from the royal families. For
exercising influence over the king in issuing grants or
shouldering administrative responsibility some training and
education were essential. The women from the royal families
and the elite were taught writing and reading. The women from
the ruling dynasties of the region took keen interest in
patronising ,,learning and art. The chief queen Kamaladevi of
Peramadi, Kadamba ruler of Goa was a great patron of
learning. Kamladevi with the assistance of Peramadi founded a
number of agraharas. In these agrahargs, Veda, VedEngas,
Nyaya, Mimansa, Siinkhya, Yoga, Vedanta, Smriti, ItihTt .'s and
purana's were taught. The queen Kamladevi built Narayan temple
and Mahglaxmi temple. 5
As regards the marriage among the royal families as well
as other sections of the Hindu society, It was considered as
one of the important 'sacraments (samskara) The objectives of
Hindu marriage were duty (dharma), progeny (prals) and
pleasure (Kima). 8 There were no pre-puberty marriages in
Vedic period: However, by e. 200 A.D. the smriti writers
started advocating pre-puberty marriages and these became
popular only among Brahmins. Among Kshatriyas there were no
child marriages even up to the Vijayanagara period. 7 The
Kshatriya women particularly from the ro;a1 families had
considerable freedom in choosing their life partners. The
references to such svayamvaras are available.
The matrimonial alliances among the royal families of the
Deccan were common. There were matrimonial alliances between
Ishvakus and Kaikeyas. 8 Kadambas of Banavasi and the
Vakatakas and the Kadambas and Guptas. 9 The Narendra
inscription records that when the Kadamba king. Chattaya went
towards .?the country of Mammuni of Thane, the
latter welcomed him and gave his daughter to him. He presented
five lakh gold coins to his son-in-law.
10
Similarly Jayakesi
I the son of Sastadeva gave his daughter to Chalukyas emperor
Vikramaditya. Hemachandra refers the royal marriage of the
Kadambas of Goa and Chalukyas of Gujrat in Devashraya.
Mayanalladevi the daughter of Jayakesi I fell in love with
king Karna of Gujrat and subsequently they were married. 1 1
The kings married many wives and the favourite among them
was the chief queen. Due to polygamy practised by many rulers,
their harems were full of rivalry and jealousy. A queen had
the title "Whip to the backs of rival wives of high repute."
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POSITION OF WOMEN
Man was engaged from the beginning of the civilisation in
procuring food and shelter for his family. Women had to
shoulder the responsibility of rearing children and
maintenance of the house hold. In Sanskrit housewife is called
grahini. It is said that the prosperity and reputation of the
family entirely depend upon the grahini. 1 The position of
women enjoyed in any society is the index of the civilisation
and culture of the society. If woman enjoyed good position and
had status in the society, it ushered in the development of
the family at the lowest level, and finally the development
of the society and the civilisation itself.
From the Vedic period onwards the birth of female child
was not the occasion of rejoicing. But girls were also taught
Vedas during the Vedic period. The thread ceremony was also
performed to female children. There were women scholars like
Gargi Lopamudra, Visvara, Sikata Nivari and Ghosha. 2 On the
auspicious occasions both husband and wife had to perform in
rites (punyE-Vachan)and even now this tradition is current.
However, by the early centuries of Christian era a
a general decline of the woman has set in.
Position of royal woman:
The earliest reference to the women from royal families
of Goa is from Prithvimallavarman's copper plate which
mentions that Chetasadevi, the daughter of Nellika on
triyodasi (13th day) of Shukla paksha of Jyestha donated
field. 3 From this is evident that the queen could exercise
influence over the king in making grants to Brahmins. The
mention to the women of early Chalukya ruler Vijayabhattarika
who ruled in Iridige Vishaya is found in the copper plate. 4
These copper plates also bear testimony to the status and
position enjoyed by the women from the royal families. For
exercising influence over the king in issuing grants or
shouldering administrative responsibility some training and
education were essential. The women from the royal families
and the elite were taught writing and reading. The women from
the ruling dynasties of the region took keen interest in
patronising ,,learning and art. The chief queen Kamaladevi of
Peramadi, Kadamba ruler of Goa was a great patron of
learning. Kamladevi with the assistance of Peramadi founded a
number of agraharas. In these agrahargs, Veda, VedEngas,
Nyaya, Mimansa, Siinkhya, Yoga, Vedanta, Smriti, ItihTt .'s and
purana's were taught. The queen Kamladevi built Narayan temple
and Mahglaxmi temple. 5
As regards the marriage among the royal families as well
as other sections of the Hindu society, It was considered as
one of the important 'sacraments (samskara) The objectives of
Hindu marriage were duty (dharma), progeny (prals) and
pleasure (Kima). 8 There were no pre-puberty marriages in
Vedic period: However, by e. 200 A.D. the smriti writers
started advocating pre-puberty marriages and these became
popular only among Brahmins. Among Kshatriyas there were no
child marriages even up to the Vijayanagara period. 7 The
Kshatriya women particularly from the ro;a1 families had
considerable freedom in choosing their life partners. The
references to such svayamvaras are available.
The matrimonial alliances among the royal families of the
Deccan were common. There were matrimonial alliances between
Ishvakus and Kaikeyas. 8 Kadambas of Banavasi and the
Vakatakas and the Kadambas and Guptas. 9 The Narendra
inscription records that when the Kadamba king. Chattaya went
towards .?the country of Mammuni of Thane, the
latter welcomed him and gave his daughter to him. He presented
five lakh gold coins to his son-in-law.
10
Similarly Jayakesi
I the son of Sastadeva gave his daughter to Chalukyas emperor
Vikramaditya. Hemachandra refers the royal marriage of the
Kadambas of Goa and Chalukyas of Gujrat in Devashraya.
Mayanalladevi the daughter of Jayakesi I fell in love with
king Karna of Gujrat and subsequently they were married. 1 1
The kings married many wives and the favourite among them
was the chief queen. Due to polygamy practised by many rulers,
their harems were full of rivalry and jealousy. A queen had
the title "Whip to the backs of rival wives of high repute."
The queen was supposed to treat her subjects both rich and
poor without discrimination. Queen used to participate in the
public functions. 12
Purda System:
It seems, that by 300 A.D. some royal families thought
that the women from their families should be seen by the
selected few while moving in public. However, from the
evidences it is clear that purda system was confined to
northern India. The paintings of Ajanta and the data from
Dharmashdstras and classical literature clearly reveals that
there was no purda system in South India and particularly in
Goa. 13
Marriage and dowry system among Brahmins and the masses:
It has been mentioned earlier that by c. 200 A.D. child
marriage became common among Brahmins and the masses. The
intercaste marriages became rare after c. 800 A.D. 14 As in
other regions of the country in Goa a special social function
was held when a married girl commenced her first menstrual
period. From this it is evident that there were pre—puberty
marriages in Goa also. 15 Due to the rigidity of caste rules,
finding a suitable match for the girls seems to have become a
problem for the parents."
Dowry system is associated with consummation of marriages
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POSITION OF WOMEN
Man was engaged from the beginning of the civilisation in
procuring food and shelter for his family. Women had to
shoulder the responsibility of rearing children and
maintenance of the house hold. In Sanskrit housewife is called
grahini. It is said that the prosperity and reputation of the
family entirely depend upon the grahini. 1 The position of
women enjoyed in any society is the index of the civilisation
and culture of the society. If woman enjoyed good position and
had status in the society, it ushered in the development of
the family at the lowest level, and finally the development
of the society and the civilisation itself.
From the Vedic period onwards the birth of female child
was not the occasion of rejoicing. But girls were also taught
Vedas during the Vedic period. The thread ceremony was also
performed to female children. There were women scholars like
Gargi Lopamudra, Visvara, Sikata Nivari and Ghosha. 2 On the
auspicious occasions both husband and wife had to perform in
rites (punyE-Vachan)and even now this tradition is current.
However, by the early centuries of Christian era a
a general decline of the woman has set in.
Position of royal woman:
The earliest reference to the women from royal families
of Goa is from Prithvimallavarman's copper plate which
mentions that Chetasadevi, the daughter of Nellika on
triyodasi (13th day) of Shukla paksha of Jyestha donated
field. 3 From this is evident that the queen could exercise
influence over the king in making grants to Brahmins. The
mention to the women of early Chalukya ruler Vijayabhattarika
who ruled in Iridige Vishaya is found in the copper plate. 4
These copper plates also bear testimony to the status and
position enjoyed by the women from the royal families. For
exercising influence over the king in issuing grants or
shouldering administrative responsibility some training and
education were essential. The women from the royal families
and the elite were taught writing and reading. The women from
the ruling dynasties of the region took keen interest in
patronising ,,learning and art. The chief queen Kamaladevi of
Peramadi, Kadamba ruler of Goa was a great patron of
learning. Kamladevi with the assistance of Peramadi founded a
number of agraharas. In these agrahargs, Veda, VedEngas,
Nyaya, Mimansa, Siinkhya, Yoga, Vedanta, Smriti, ItihTt .'s and
purana's were taught. The queen Kamladevi built Narayan temple
and Mahglaxmi temple. 5
As regards the marriage among the royal families as well
as other sections of the Hindu society, It was considered as
one of the important 'sacraments (samskara) The objectives of
Hindu marriage were duty (dharma), progeny (prals) and
pleasure (Kima). 8 There were no pre-puberty marriages in
Vedic period: However, by e. 200 A.D. the smriti writers
started advocating pre-puberty marriages and these became
popular only among Brahmins. Among Kshatriyas there were no
child marriages even up to the Vijayanagara period. 7 The
Kshatriya women particularly from the ro;a1 families had
considerable freedom in choosing their life partners. The
references to such svayamvaras are available.
The matrimonial alliances among the royal families of the
Deccan were common. There were matrimonial alliances between
Ishvakus and Kaikeyas. 8 Kadambas of Banavasi and the
Vakatakas and the Kadambas and Guptas. 9 The Narendra
inscription records that when the Kadamba king. Chattaya went
towards .?the country of Mammuni of Thane, the
latter welcomed him and gave his daughter to him. He presented
five lakh gold coins to his son-in-law.
10
Similarly Jayakesi
I the son of Sastadeva gave his daughter to Chalukyas emperor
Vikramaditya. Hemachandra refers the royal marriage of the
Kadambas of Goa and Chalukyas of Gujrat in Devashraya.
Mayanalladevi the daughter of Jayakesi I fell in love with
king Karna of Gujrat and subsequently they were married. 1 1
The kings married many wives and the favourite among them
was the chief queen. Due to polygamy practised by many rulers,
their harems were full of rivalry and jealousy. A queen had
the title "Whip to the backs of rival wives of high repute."
The queen was supposed to treat her subjects both rich and
poor without discrimination. Queen used to participate in the
public functions. 12
Purda System:
It seems, that by 300 A.D. some royal families thought
that the women from their families should be seen by the
selected few while moving in public. However, from the
evidences it is clear that purda system was confined to
northern India. The paintings of Ajanta and the data from
Dharmashdstras and classical literature clearly reveals that
there was no purda system in South India and particularly in
Goa. 13
Marriage and dowry system among Brahmins and the masses:
It has been mentioned earlier that by c. 200 A.D. child
marriage became common among Brahmins and the masses. The
intercaste marriages became rare after c. 800 A.D. 14 As in
other regions of the country in Goa a special social function
was held when a married girl commenced her first menstrual
period. From this it is evident that there were pre—puberty
marriages in Goa also. 15 Due to the rigidity of caste rules,
finding a suitable match for the girls seems to have become a
problem for the parents."
Dowry system is associated with consummation of marriages
as dakshina. Hence this is called Varadakshina (the gift
offered to the bride grooms). This gift consisted of cash or
gold. 17 Among the masses the amount of the dowry was not
sizable. The father of the bride offered dowry according his
capacity. The Konkani proverb cautions the bride-groom not to
be fascinated by the amount of dowry offered by the father-in-
law. If the bride-groom accepts huge amount of dowry, he would
be a slave of his wife (at least a hen-packed husband) 18 .
Another Konkani proverb says that the culture which the mother
of the bride has transmitted to the daughter remains but not
the dowry given by the father. 19 Dowry is not permanent asset
and this might vanish if it is not in the sate custody of the
newly married boy. Therefore, the society which coined these
proverbs was against the dowry system and attached
considerable importance to the cultural background of the
bride. Yet another proverb of Konkani adumbrates the similar
sentiments. Observe the mother and then marry the girl, as you
taste the quality of the milk while purchasing the buffalo. 20
From the above proverbs it is evident that mother had an
important role to play in educating the girl in shouldering
the responsibility of the joint family. A girl who had not yet
reached teen-age has to go to the house of in-laws and the
husband of the girl was one of the member of the joint
family. The family consisted of father-in-laws, brother and
their wives, the brothers and sisters of husband etc.
Therefore, the mother had to train her daughter to serve the
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