Give Thanks and Maximize Motivation Video Lecture | Be a Leader: Leadership Development Course - Management

there are three keys to getting the best
out of others and the first of these is
appreciation every time you thank
another person you cause that person to
like themselves more you raise their
self-esteem and you improve their
self-image you cause them to feel more
important you make them feel that what
they did was valuable and worthwhile you
actually empower people by expressing
appreciation and the wonderful thing
about thanking other people is that
every time you say the words thank you
you like yourself better as well you
feel better inside you feel happier and
more content with yourself in life you
feel more fully integrated and positive
about what you are doing when you
develop an attitude of gratitude that
flows forth from you and all of your
interactions with others you'll be
amazed at how popular you will become
and how eager others will be to help you
in whatever you are doing the second way
to make people feel important to raise
their self-esteem and give them a sense
of power and energy is by the generous
use of praise and approval psychological
tests show that when children are
praised by the people that they look up
to their energy levels rise their heart
rates and respiratory rates increase and
they feel happier about themselves
overall perhaps the most important and
valuable lesson in Ken Blanchard x' book
the one minute manager is his
recommendation to be giving one-minute
praisings
at every opportunity if you go around
your home and through your social
relationships praising and giving
genuine and honest approval to people
for their accomplishments large and
small you'll be amazed at how much more
people like you and how much more
willing they are to help you to achieve
your goals there's a psychological law
of reciprocity that says if you make me
feel good about myself I'll find a way
to make you feel good about yourself in
other words people will always look for
ways to reciprocate your kindnesses
toward them when
you look for every opportunity to do and
say things that make other people feel
good about themselves you'll be
astonished at not only how good you feel
but at the wonderful things that begin
to happen all around you the third way
to empower others to build their
self-esteem and make them feel important
is simply to pay close attention to them
when they talk the great majority of
people are so busy trying to be heard
that they become impatient when others
are talking but this is not for you
remember the most important single
activity that takes place over time is
listening intently to the other person
when he or she is talking and expressing
himself or herself again the three
general rules for empowering the people
around you which apply to everyone you
meet our appreciation approval and
attention voice your thanks and
gratitude to others on every occasion
praise them for every accomplishment and
pay close attention to them when they
want to talk and they want to interact
with you these three behaviors alone
will make you a master of human
interaction and will greatly empower the
people around you thank you for viewing
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