Background of Via and Marinda's Friendship
Via and Marinda shared a close friendship during their early high school years, but several factors contributed to the deterioration of their relationship.
Changing Dynamics
- As high school progressed, both girls began to change and grow in different directions.
- Marinda started to become more focused on her social status and popularity, which led to her distancing from Via.
August's Influence
- Via's protective nature towards her younger brother, August (Auggie), who has a facial difference, created tension.
- Marinda's lack of understanding regarding Auggie’s situation made it difficult for her to empathize with Via's challenges.
Misunderstandings
- A pivotal moment occurred when Marinda made a comment about August that Via perceived as hurtful.
- This misunderstanding highlighted the growing divide between them, as Marinda became less supportive of Via's family circumstances.
Social Pressures
- The pressures of high school social life made it hard for Marinda to maintain a friendship with someone she felt was different.
- Marinda's desire to fit in with a more popular crowd led her to prioritize those relationships over her bond with Via.
Conclusion
Ultimately, Via and Marinda's friendship ended due to a combination of changing personal priorities, misunderstandings, and the harsh realities of high school social dynamics. This experience was pivotal for Via as she learned to navigate friendships amidst the challenges posed by her family life and Auggie’s situation.